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Saturday, January 9, 2010

Bear with me...

I am still taking comments on my post, but currently comments on certain posts are hidden while I implement some much needed security measures.  In the meantime, if you want to leave a comment on a post that is not accepting comments - send me an email :)

Ok Update!

In case you haven't already heard the exciting news, my FOO has discovered my blog. I really don't care if they are reading or not. What I do have a problem with is NM leaving comments spreading FOG. Out of the 300 + comments I have gotten on this blog, her comment was easy to spot. The comment has been deleted.

She has yelled over me and put me in my "place" my whole life. Well, she doesn't get a voice here.

I have been able to block them from accessing (A how-to guide is in the works). I know eventually they might find a way around it (as I type, they are continuing to try to reload my page, click on various links to this page, and view cached versions of this site --- I'm sure they think they are very clever.).

I kinda feel like a kid whose mother just read her diary... but I am not ashamed. These pages are my point of view, my honest account, my journey. The only reason I blog anonymously is to protect their identity, not mine.

So FOO - if you have sneaked your way back in and want to read, fine by me. Be warned, you may not like everything I have to say. If it bothers you, by all means, do not come back again. Please keep your opinion to yourself. I will find you and I will block you again.
Posted by One Angry Daughter
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15 comments:

  4. Forgiveness Is A ChoiceJan 12, 2010 04:20 PM
    OAD, if you want to move off Blogger, leave a comment here. I can help you with that.
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  6. Wow.
    Sorry to hear, but good to hear you have been able to block.

    Amazing how bad with boundaries--ahh, their trademark...
    Well, with any luck, perhaps a smidgen of self-awareness that your FOO will develop from deciding to read your posts! Oh, to dream...
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  7. OAD you should so know better! She wouldn't care if it's good or bad, only that it is...it's about her and in her mind she now knows she is still receiving the "supply".
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  8. Gina - you make a good point. Regardless if she gets to read it or not, she is probably satisfied that I spend so much time trying to undue the damage she has done. Good/bad attention - still supply.
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  9. OAD- My thoughts are with you, and I am angry for you towards the evil people in your past life who continually do their best to hurt you. I'm am so disgusted by toxic people who do everything in their power to push others down.
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  10. Sorry, didn't mean to sound so harsh. Your site is amazing and I can truly relate and you don't sound whiny at all! Really, if she can read between the lines (but she won't),it's not at all about her anymore it's all about you. Peace and happiness. Am worried about you communicating with Dad though, because you WILL read between the lines. She is not allowed to push buttons any more, she does not have the power, you do.
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  11. Goodness. Your NM is advanced. It took my FOO over a year to cyber-stalk me. It's one of the steps.

    Coming soon- the "Your mother just had a cardiac stent put in because of all this stress. You need to come take care of her before she leaves on her 3-week trip to China."
    Kititits
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  12. Oy vey. I'm sorry. How stressful!

    I'm glad you're back, and good for you for standing your ground.
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  13. @Gina - I think the dad contact is going to be on hold for a while... besides he's already seen the letter now I'm sure.

    @Kititits - sounds like you've had experience with this? So far for me, no phone ringing.

    @Maeve - thanks! It has been a bit stressfull - but I think my blog is pretty secure from them, for now... Still has me a bit worked up though!
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  14. I just wanted to tell you that I'm incredibly impressed with how you have handled this invasion from your family of origin who really don't know the first thing about love or what it really means to display it.

    You have given me strength in my own life by not backing away from this.

    If my foo were to find me online, my first instinct would be to delete everything so they could never use it to hurt me further. But you met this challenge head on and kept your own power. Well done! You've set a great example for the rest of us.
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  15. Both my parents are looney narcissists. Im glad I confronted them , and exposed their shallow , cold blooded , two faced selves. These fools actually get mad at me for confronting them , and say ' just grow up ', or 'move on already' It's really sad .

    Just think of all the poor souls trapped , and they have no idea their parents are the culprits.
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